We celebrated Christmas with family on a Caribbean island this year. It was a new experience for us, and could not have been a richer, better time. We spent lots of time on the beach and in the water. Snorkeling was marvelous, the best I have ever experienced. We saw coral reefs, many kinds of fish, a barracuda, a moray eel and green sea turtles every day we swam. Our last day we saw octopi. The first one spread and changed color as Olivia and I watched. Son John surprised a second octopus as he reached for a shell. It too was surprised by him, inked and retreated to its coral home. It was wonderful to share the experience with grand-daughters. Seeing these sea creatures in their home environment was spectacular – much more than even the best documentary shows. We hiked, toured Charlotte Amalie, played games and enjoyed many other activities.
This Sunday was the feast of the Holy Family. Father Pedro had a wonderful homily (as usual). The gospel and homily seemed so apropos following our trip. The gospel is the story of Jesus becoming separated from his family and remaining in the temple. Father talked of Mary, Joseph and Jesus being a ‘dream team’, a family that could have exalted in their individual status and talent. Instead of being individualists they set an example of how to complement and bring out the best in one another and others – the trademark of a true dream team and family. The conclusion of the story is that Jesus was obedient to his parents. We hear no more from him until his public life, 18 years later – a lesson in silence.
Our family time was wonderful, a time when we complemented one another, made each other better and happier. It is a memory to be treasured.
